Don’t waste time with explanations. Some people only hear what they want.
Have you ever had a conversation with someone where you felt like you were talking to a brick wall? No matter what you said, they just didn’t seem to be listening. They had their own ideas about what you were saying, and they weren’t interested in hearing anything else.
If you’ve ever been in this situation, you know how frustrating it can be. You want to be understood, but it feels like you’re talking to someone who is determined not to listen.
The truth is, some people are only interested in hearing what they want to hear. They have their own beliefs and opinions, and they’re not willing to change them, no matter what evidence you present to them.
In these cases, it’s often best to save your breath and not waste your time with explanations.
Why is it a waste of time?
There are a few reasons why it’s a waste of time to explain things to people who only hear what they want to hear.
First, they’re not going to listen. No matter how carefully you explain something, they’re going to twist your words to fit their own narrative.
Second, it’s disrespectful. When you try to explain something to someone who is not interested in listening, you’re essentially telling them that they’re wrong. This can be hurtful and damaging to the relationship.
Third, it’s exhausting. Trying to reason with someone who is not open to reason is a draining experience. It’s not worth the emotional energy.
What to do instead
If you find yourself in a conversation with someone who is only interested in hearing what they want to hear, there are a few things you can do.
First, you can try to change the subject. If they’re not interested in talking about the current topic, move on to something else.
Second, you can simply agree to disagree. This doesn’t mean that you have to like their opinion, but it does mean that you don’t have to argue about it.
Third, you can walk away. If the conversation is getting too heated, or if you’re not getting anywhere, it’s okay to end the conversation.
It’s important to remember that you can’t control other people’s thoughts or beliefs. You can only control your own actions. If you find yourself in a conversation with someone who is only interested in hearing what they want to hear, the best thing you can do is to save your time and energy for something else.
